Words are powerful things. Especially to women.
We can go from being on top of the world, to feeling like crawling into a hole and dying in a matter of seconds just from the wrong choice of words.
When life gets confusing or hard and we get flustered, we need someone to listen, to be there, to hold us and let us cry. To whisper “shh, everything’s gonna be alright.”
Even if that person can’t be there to hold us, just saying they wish they could help, they wish they could hold us and give us comfort is enough, because of the words and the power those words have over us girls.
Sometimes when we’re upset, we aren’t necessarily upset at you, just a situation in life, something emotional, deep down inside of us and we don’t need defenses from you, we need comfort and loving care, to feel safe. Like your arms and your love are our sanctuary.
We’re like flowers who need some shelter from the sun and storms or we’ll start to wilt.
Take care of your flower, if she’s feeling frustrated with life, hold her and let her cry, kiss away her tears and be her strong shoulder. Pray with her and help her give her problems to God. You are the strong leader and you should help her pull her attention back to God, be the reminder that you are there to help, but so is God, and between you and God, she will be safe. Because God is the one who has given her to you, he has entrusted her to you, and he loves her dearly.
A man who can do this, is truly a man and no longer a boy.
A man needs to understand what his woman needs and give it to her because she is what he cares about and she needs a man who can lead her and protect her just like God leads her and protects her.
Now, this doesn’t go one way. We girls need to find out what our men need and help them the same way. We need to be encouragers and let them know how well they are doing and how amazing they are.
Relationships are about giving. What can you give to help your special someone? What do they need from you and are you truly the right one to help them with what they need?
We can go from being on top of the world, to feeling like crawling into a hole and dying in a matter of seconds just from the wrong choice of words.
When life gets confusing or hard and we get flustered, we need someone to listen, to be there, to hold us and let us cry. To whisper “shh, everything’s gonna be alright.”
Even if that person can’t be there to hold us, just saying they wish they could help, they wish they could hold us and give us comfort is enough, because of the words and the power those words have over us girls.
Sometimes when we’re upset, we aren’t necessarily upset at you, just a situation in life, something emotional, deep down inside of us and we don’t need defenses from you, we need comfort and loving care, to feel safe. Like your arms and your love are our sanctuary.
We’re like flowers who need some shelter from the sun and storms or we’ll start to wilt.
Take care of your flower, if she’s feeling frustrated with life, hold her and let her cry, kiss away her tears and be her strong shoulder. Pray with her and help her give her problems to God. You are the strong leader and you should help her pull her attention back to God, be the reminder that you are there to help, but so is God, and between you and God, she will be safe. Because God is the one who has given her to you, he has entrusted her to you, and he loves her dearly.
A man who can do this, is truly a man and no longer a boy.
A man needs to understand what his woman needs and give it to her because she is what he cares about and she needs a man who can lead her and protect her just like God leads her and protects her.
Now, this doesn’t go one way. We girls need to find out what our men need and help them the same way. We need to be encouragers and let them know how well they are doing and how amazing they are.
Relationships are about giving. What can you give to help your special someone? What do they need from you and are you truly the right one to help them with what they need?
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